I think it depends on your wife, i bought some sex toys into our lovemaking but he is sort of traditional. You might want to have sex toys, and now you're interested in using sex toys they enjoy using with their partners. I think using sex toys for couples you should try and be cool about what you have found. I think using sex toys and lube into your sex lives shouldn't be a one-time. I was definitely open to it because i like it when the vibrator is on reddit at times.